I exchanged some email with her and it's really more point #2 than anything else - she's doing the "get a life" thing - getting out, making friends ... remember? - and endless arguments on a porn forum are incompatible with that. She hadn't had much time to post in the last month or so anyway.

But hopefully she'll feel the need to say something rude & crude about someone, and she'll know where to go to find a forum that specializes in that sort of thing.
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"If they can't picture me with a knife, forcing them to strip in an alley, I don't want any part of it. It's humiliating." - windsock