Years ago, I saw Annette Haven performing on stage at the Admiral Theater in Chicago (now a strip club). Talked with her a bit after the show and remember asking her why she didn't allow facial cum shots. She said that she just didn't think a woman looked attractive with a "big glob of cum on her face."

Some time after that, I was riding a bus in San Francisco near Fisherman's Wharf when I spotted her getting on - carrying a "Swinger" Polaroid camera. I mozied up and told her that I liked her movies. She said she was flattered and that I didn't know how much that meant to her. We talked briefly about how she was using henna to color her hair before I had to get off (the bus).

Back in Chicago and a little more recently, I met Seka (aka Dottie), bartending at a bar/restaurant I frequented after work on most Fridays. She was quite open about being Seka when I recognized her and asked if that was who she was. Over time, we struck up a friendship. We rarely talked about her days in porn and mostly discussed her current life, people we both knew from the bar, and her imminent move to Missouri and marriage. She was kind enough to invite me to her goodbye party the last day of work. You could tell she was a tough lady and someone you would not want to mess with but she was always kind and friendly to me. I liked spending time and getting to know her.