Looks being the key word here. All Kim wanted was to be treated like a world power and now he is being treated that way. Kim wins.
Like most impotent sons of powerful men, both Kim and Drumpf seek approval from others above all else. NK desperately wants to not be a second or third world country and Kim sees sitting at the table with the US as a major step in that direction. So, once again.....NK win, Drumpf loss.
"Winning" as a concept is as lame and dated as its progenitor- Charlie Sheen. (speaking of never living up to your father's standards)