Don't confuse the Tritones of the world with regular fans. Remember him and his crew are the guys who call a girl racist if she wont like the ass of a blackman regardless of how many IRs scenes shes shot...
If she will lick the ass of non-black man, but NOT a black man ... then yeah, we're gonna call her on it.
If she doesn't lick ANY man's ass, then its cool.
The whole point is that a performer needs to do the same things with black men that she will do with other men.