no one was shocked as Asa & Chanel and pretty much everyone had known about his penchant for being rammed with strapons in his personal life.
You are implying that because he loves to take a strap on, that is proof he is gay.
You take strap ons quite often, but I assume you would not call yourself gay (you have denied this many times).
So, why would mock a guy who likes strap ons?
You wonder why you put people off with your attitude sometimes.