Monica, I could be wrong about this but it seems to me that you treat all of your interactions here as confrontations.

Why do you maintain an aloof attitude instead of trying to be friendly and casual?

If you are curious where I am coming from I don't appreciate the blanket statement about all posters as nerdy douchebags.

I'll readily admit to being nerdy but I haven't ever done anything to you that would warrant any hostility.

EDIT: The description from Encyclopedia Dramatica is pretty apt. Clicky.

"a forum that is supposed to be about the business of porn (complete with pictures), but instead an arena where raging whores battle to the death in an insane drama fest."