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What I mean by this is - the more you compromise your values, standards, morals, beliefs, likes and dislikes, the more you are not right for each other. You should never have to compromise yourself before or during a relationship. The more you compromise, the more you will learn to resent your (in)significant other for having to change something about you that defines a little part of you.



True, but the more you seek perfection, you might just as well title your ideal mate "soulmate", or "partner of your dreams". It's better to compromise, and deal with each other's imperfections, otherwise you'll go apeshit because one party can't learn to break old habits.

I totally agree with your assessment on role-playing, however, because it's all an act & shouldn't be construed as anything but.

I like this Ruby chick, she's got a fucking brain...and god forbid in a whore, a heart.



Thanks Eric! That may be the nicest thing I've read you say.

I'm not saying anybody should hold out for somebody perfect, I'm saying somebody should hold out for somebody perfect for THEM. It's relative. One person may like 2 girls 1 cup, another may like 1 guy 1 jug. It's all individual preference. All I'm saying is if you like 1 guy 1 jug then don't pretend to like 2 girls 1 cup for the sake of your partner. Be yourself and you will attract the person you are truly looking for.

The irony is people change who they are and what they like for public adoration and it turns out those things they adopt temporarily are the exact things they despise. Stop trying to decipher what other people want b/c when it boils down to it, you really don't know, and by acting like Posh Spice, you've missed your opportunity b/c the perfect guy (for you) was simply looking for a PW.
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