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What I mean by this is - the more you compromise your values, standards, morals, beliefs, likes and dislikes, the more you are not right for each other. You should never have to compromise yourself before or during a relationship. The more you compromise, the more you will learn to resent your (in)significant other for having to change something about you that defines a little part of you.

Nobody should ever expect another to change, and nobody should become something they aren't to satisfy the desires of another person (unless, of course, you're role playing). In addition, nobody should ever expect or force somebody else to change. Physical attraction and sexual compatibility is important, but you also want somebody that you not only can wake up next to, but somebody you can wake up next to and not say "why are you still here?!?!"

We're all sexual deviants by nature, but being crack heads and alcoholics and degenerates is a choice. Dating a porn star wouldn't be such a bad thing if the baggage was checked at the front counter. There are some PWs that don't have that baggage, but it is like finding a needle in the hay stack - similar to finding a life partner. Go figure.

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