I have a serious question that I would love to know the medical answer to. As in proof or a concrete answer, rather than conjecture or prejudice. I value your opinions on this forum more so than others, because I think you guys speak more freely on the subject.

Here is my question....

is there a medical difference in the risk of transmitting HIV from male-male anal sex vs. male-female anal sex.

assuming i work with a female who is HIV positive and have anal sex vs. working with a male who is HIV positive and have anal sex....am I more likely to catch HIV from either gender or is it the exact same risk? Is that scenario clear enough to decipher?

Flame away if you wish, but I would love to hear actual factual answers if possible. Thanks for your help.