OK...let me state right off the bat I know there are bigger acts of submission than what I'm about to list below. However, in this discussion I had with the same person I debated the "oral vs. anal" sex act, these were the two choices.

She was of the opinion that women who allow a man to take them up the ass is being more submissive because she has two other openings that can get the job done but allows him into an opening that can cause a hell of a lot of pain if you're not careful.

I said that it's more submissive for a MAN to let another man fuck him up the ass because men aren't supposed to be on the receiving end of a cock.

To me, it seems like common sense but she's absolutely convinced it's women because men are just sex animals and if we didn't give them sex they'd think nothing of fucking each other to get off.

Your thoughts?