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This is kinda funny... I recall Kurt pulling me aside at Erotica LA, insisting that he's not gay, but he just likes things up his ass. "And that doesn't make me gay," he firmly stated. "I don't have sex with men." Honestly I have no problem with this-- I think everyone should be free to do as he likes, and I bet he's being paid well for this. But does being fucked in the ass actually "make him gay"? Or does it just "make him bisexual"? Or is he just exploring his sexuality, albeit on film and for money? We know Christian as a crossover performer, but he says he only dates women, and I believe him.

We do have pretty rigid sexual boundaries, even in porn, where we're supposed to be liberal or something like that. I have several gay friends who have slept with "straight men". I'm not a guy so I really don't know how this works, but is it possible that there are more men out there willing to engage in homosexual activities than we'd like to think? Men who still are only romantically involved with women, and consider themselves straight, but have always been, well, curious? I wonder how many of these men would make themselves known if they weren't faced with such absolute social parameters.

Ancient Greek and Roman history abounds with male on male sexual relationships. One of Rome's most famous emperors, Hadrian, was so devastated at his young lover Antinous' death, that he erected (no pun intended, haha) statues and buildings in his name. That's just one famous couple from that era-- there are many, many more. It was very common for men of high social ranking to take on male teenage lovers. This has always been a subject of interest to me, because it suggests that biologically, men are not repelled by homosexual relationships. It's only the social stigma that has been drilled into us from an early age that makes distaste for same sex unions to be inherent.




Once you have sex youre no longer a virgin I view it the same way, once you have sex with another man youre gay just if you stop you become a non practicing homosexual. Hey I have no problem with who sleeps with who but the homosexual act is to have sex with someone of the same sex so if you do that you can't say you aren't gay, nick manning has had sex with probably 800-1000 people while gypsy might of conned 5 people to have sex with her, neither are virgins despite one having a lot more sex with a lot more people.

I actually believe Christian sleeps with or has a history of sleeping with men in his personal life, I think its just too far fetched for you to have sex with men on film without exploring it in your personal life, in fact on his wiki page there was a link to an interview where he talked about hooking up with guys at bars, not trying to throw christian under the bus as he might of been lying to please his gay audience but I think it would be too great a leap to do that for the first time on film.
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