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#461864 - 11/18/09 08:49 PM Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I just re-watched a movie that I really like called "Sexy Beast". The main character, played by Ray Winstone, is married to a former porn actress and lives on the Spanish coast with her. He is a former gang member who escaped Britain to live the life of luxury with the woman he loves in Spain, but gets pulled back to England to do "one last heist". I don't know why, but I really like the opening of that movie. I fantasize about which pornstar I would give up everything for and move to Spain. There is a list, but it is very, very short.



Anyway, it got me thinking. I always figured that there is a line in society that separates the lower class thug from the upper class "YUPPIE". Anybody who would have a serious relationship with a porn star (current or former) has no prospects in life other than pimp, involved in making porno movies, drugs, or maybe manual labor. No successful, intelligent man would have a relationship with a pornstar, would they?

Does this explain why all those pornstars have such goofy, wigger, fashion challenged boyfriends?

Would you take an ex-pornstar home to meet your Mother and talk about marriage if you were successful in life--or if you wanted to be, you know, more than a drug dealing pimp or ditch digger?


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#461865 - 11/18/09 09:07 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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WOW - but not surprising how deluded you are. YOU DAMN RIGHT I WOULD! But only if she were not a drug-addled attention whore. ERGO - not many opportunities.

I don't care if she has a shot-out leather face or a cottage cheese ass. If she fucks like a whore on demand and helps take care of my Mom, I am golden.
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#461866 - 11/18/09 09:11 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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May not agree with whorebot about politics, but his post here is spot on for me.

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#461867 - 11/18/09 09:14 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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May not agree with whorebot about politics, but his post here is spot on for me.



"My wayfaring brothers and sisters - we are together again at last"


Edited by whorebot (11/18/09 09:14 PM)
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#461868 - 11/18/09 09:14 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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WOW - but not surprising how deluded you are. YOU DAMN RIGHT I WOULD! But only if she were not a drug-addled attention whore. ERGO - not many opportunities.

I don't care if she has a shot-out leather face or a cottage cheese ass. If she fucks like a whore on demand and helps take care of my Mom, I am golden.




You miss the point. It isn't about the woman. It is about the people you must associate with (like them or hate them) and how it may impact your career. Don't you think you can find a woman who likes sex who didn't become a porn whore? Does every woman who didn't decide to make a porn movie hate sex?

Would you sacrifice a successful career to be with a porn whore? What about a prostitute?

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#461869 - 11/18/09 09:20 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I'm retired ! I'll sacrifice whatever it fucking takes !
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#461870 - 11/18/09 09:25 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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You miss the point. It isn't about the woman. It is about the people you must associate with (like them or hate them) and how it may impact your career. Don't you think you can find a woman who likes sex who didn't become a porn whore? Does every woman who didn't decide to make a porn movie hate sex?
Would you sacrifice a successful career to be with a porn whore? What about a prostitute?



Aiyiyi-you are wrapped into the shame of sex. Oppositely, I am saying I would not veto a good relationship due to her past as a pornwhore. Her STD status would affect our relationship more significantly - because there is a reason they call me "Ass First WhoreBBot". If she still wants to shoot porn - then I would unselfishly serve as her stuntcock on Luckyfuckers.com
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#461871 - 11/18/09 09:28 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Before I was ill, suicidal, medicated and disabled, I wouldn't. My family & friends would have been BEYOND vicious. And, I wouldn't have been REMOTELY interested.

Now? My family & friends would likely even have less issues with it than I would - especially if she were pregnant with my kid. Especially after my cousin and a college friend's mom offed themselves in the past two years - and both had better histories than mine.

I could bring home a black muslim prostitute ex-con and my family and friends would smile if they thought she could remotely get me to care about Life. I could likely bring home both of THE Twins and Vanessa the tranny and no one would say shit.

That's the up side of scaring them with emergency admissions. Now I could get away with anything.

[The downside is there is nothing I want.]
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#461872 - 11/18/09 09:31 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Google "Lionel Aldridge" and live like him.

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#461873 - 11/18/09 09:34 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Quote:

You miss the point. It isn't about the woman. It is about the people you must associate with (like them or hate them) and how it may impact your career. Don't you think you can find a woman who likes sex who didn't become a porn whore? Does every woman who didn't decide to make a porn movie hate sex?
Would you sacrifice a successful career to be with a porn whore? What about a prostitute?



Aiyiyi-you are wrapped into the shame of sex. Oppositely, I am saying I would not veto a good relationship due to her past as a pornwhore. Her STD status would affect our relationship more significantly - because there is a reason they call me "Ass First WhoreBBot". If she still wants to shoot porn - then I would unselfishly serve as her stuntcock on Luckyfuckers.com





I have already stated on previous posts, that I'm not one of those guys who look-down-my-nose at the same porn stars that I fantasize about. Sadly, reality is reality.

You can't have a job, or career, or life, of any significance if you are willing to have a serious relationship or marriage (as opposed to a simple "fling") with a former porn whore--let alone an active one, can you???

Please, feel free to prove me wrong. I sort of wish I was wrong.

Sadly, I know I'm not
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#461874 - 11/18/09 09:36 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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If she still wants to shoot porn - then I would unselfishly serve as her stuntcock on Luckyfuckers.com




You do realize that the MILF Tiger Woods of Politics would probably have you and your new wife arrested for obscenity once she and the bible-thumpers come to power?




You'd have to post blurry Gia pics to Euro porn forums from the Leavenworth Law Library computers.
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#461875 - 11/18/09 09:39 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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So now I see I am really talking to Charlie Sheen.

I know you didn't dump Ginger because of your "career". You dumped Ginger because you could get better whores for less money and hassle.

Who cares what anybody thinks anyway? Ginger is welcome at my family's Christmas Dinner.
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#461876 - 11/18/09 09:43 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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You do realize that the MILF Tiger Woods of Politics would probably have you and your new wife arrested for obscenity once she and the bible-thumpers come to power?
You'd have to post blurry Gia pics to Euro porn forums from the Leavenworth Law Library computers.



Bible-thumpers? Learn the truth and reject the media narrative. Set yourself free my friend.
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#461877 - 11/18/09 09:51 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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So now I see I am really talking to Charlie Sheen.

I know you didn't dump Ginger because of your "career". You dumped Ginger because you could get better whores for less money and hassle.

Who cares what anybody thinks anyway? Ginger is welcome at my family's Christmas Dinner.




I see that, unlike Charlie Sheen, I am talking to somebody who doesn't realize that many, many, many, many, many, many people's livelihoods depends upon what other people think.

From "Mom & Pop" businesses, to politics, to religion. From the corner store in Bumfuck, Iowa to the Senator from New York City. From the Realtor in Kansas to the Family Doctor in Ohio. Who you are is, in part, defined by who you are married to. People who don't know or understand this simple fact of life are only fooling themselves. Are all the readers of XPT really this naive? Or are they just too young, inexperienced and detached from any career or lifestyle above the level of drug dealer to understand this?
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#461878 - 11/18/09 09:53 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Absolutely i'd marry an ex-pornstar! (Gia?)
That movie "Sexy Beast" is weird - it starts out like a comedy but then gets very scary. Ian McShane plays a really frightening character!

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#461879 - 11/18/09 09:53 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Bible-thumpers? Learn the truth and reject the media narrative. Set yourself free my friend.





It's you who's been drinking the Kool-Aid. Embrace Palin. Enjoy. I don't care. But, be ready to kiss your porn goodbye.

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#461880 - 11/18/09 10:04 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Google "Lionel Aldridge" and live like him.




I don't get it. I did "Google" him. I am a big Vince Lombardi fan, but other than that, I don't see the significance.


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#461881 - 11/18/09 10:15 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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It's you who's been drinking the Kool-Aid. Embrace Palin. Enjoy. I don't care. But, be ready to kiss your porn goodbye.



Fatman, try Cymbalta - it works for me. And do not carry guilt about your media seducement. It has seduced many a good people. Of all your worries about Palin - restricting free speech is NOT one of them.
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#461882 - 11/18/09 10:16 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I'm retired ! I'll sacrifice whatever it fucking takes !




But what if you weren't retired? This is what I am getting at.

"It is easy to be a Holy Man at the top of a mountain."

You do understand what I am asking here, BDM, I know you do, right?
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#461883 - 11/18/09 10:27 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Absolutely i'd marry an ex-pornstar! (Gia?)
That movie "Sexy Beast" is weird - it starts out like a comedy but then gets very scary. Ian McShane plays a really frightening character!




I sold the idea of renting this movie to an old school friend of mine on Ben Kingsley's performance, but Ian McShane was pretty good too. By the way, it became one of my friend's favorite movies.

Which Porn-star would you marry, Ben?

Maybe we should move this thread out of the theoretical to the more concrete? Which porn whore would you give up your current career for and move to a another country to be with?

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#461884 - 11/18/09 10:38 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Lionel Aldridge was diagnosed with schizophrenia and became a strong advocate for persons with mental illness. He was a righteous dude.

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#461885 - 11/19/09 12:37 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
Barry the Pirate Offline
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Good question. Hope you don't get banned for it. I kind of disagree with your "class" arguement. The beauty of living in a free society is that you're not confined to your class. You can move up or down, or hold in place, depending on a your ambition...and tons of other factors. Considering most pw's are in the 18 to 25ish range, they all have the chance to join the real world and put the pw past behind them. I know as a 44 year old, I'm a way different person than I was at 18- 25. I don't think I'd want to be with anyone who held my post high school drug dealing and mushroom cultivating career against me 20some years later. We all have skeletons in our closets. No matter what "class" we're in, we all have goofy stuff in our backgrounds. I guess to me it would matter what a girl was now.

As to your idea that somehow porn chicks are better/ more skilled sexually than a civvie, I think you've bought the porn fantasy that these girls are...well, "hot to trot". I would guess very few of them are. Most are doing it for the money. There are notable exceptions, of course. Ava Devine comes to mind. If a girl does 18 months in the business and moves on, actually using it as a means to end (going to law school...but actually going, not just saying they will) and become a regular ol' member of society, I don't see why their sordid past should be held against them.

Would I? You know, the hearts wants what it wants. You meet a girl, things are going great, you're clicking nicely and she tells you she did porn 20 years ago but has lived a straight life since, who's to say what happens? If everything else was fine, and she was well adjusted to her past, what would be the hangup?

Just my 2 cents.
Barry
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#461886 - 11/19/09 01:07 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I kind of disagree with your "class" arguement. The beauty of living in a free society is that you're not confined to your class.




My point was only that the pathetic parolee mopes that you see on that other thread in the cage might have more to do with the fact that Brad Pitt and JFK jr. (before he died) may not be as likely to date a porn whore as the average, recently released from prison, bukkaki mope with the stupid tattoos and the bad suit, because of social issues more than desire or attraction. Do you see this?



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As to your idea that somehow porn chicks are better/ more skilled sexually than a civvie, I think you've bought the porn fantasy that these girls are...well, "hot to trot". I would guess very few of them are.




I never said or implied such a thing. I doubt that the average porn whore has the passion, the experience, or the skills of the average college girl who is into sex and willing to "experiment". I have dated women who fucked for free, and because they wanted to, and easily had a larger sexual appetite than me--and more than the average money grubbing, man hating porn chick as well.

The difference is that the sexual activity of the average porn whore is on display in her movies, and even if it is all an "act" it can be used as a comparison to the sexual experiences of the typical consumer. MY desires have more to do with personal attraction to a specific woman than they do to some idealized notion of a "porn whore".

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Would I? You know, the hearts wants what it wants.

Just my 2 cents.
Barry




This post was all about what you would give up to satisfy what the heart wants. Giving up a career as Governor of South Carolina to fly to South America to fuck some whore is a bigger sacrifice than Billy Bob skipping out of his shift on the French Fry machine at McDonald's to pick up $20 hooker for a blow job, isn't it? Or are they both the same to you?

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#461887 - 11/19/09 02:48 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Quote:

I kind of disagree with your "class" arguement. The beauty of living in a free society is that you're not confined to your class.




My point was only that the pathetic parolee mopes that you see on that other thread in the cage might have more to do with the fact that Brad Pitt and JFK jr. (before he died) may not be as likely to date a porn whore as the average, recently released from prison, bukkaki mope with the stupid tattoos and the bad suit, because of social issues more than desire or attraction. Do you see this?



Quote:

As to your idea that somehow porn chicks are better/ more skilled sexually than a civvie, I think you've bought the porn fantasy that these girls are...well, "hot to trot". I would guess very few of them are.




I never said or implied such a thing. I doubt that the average porn whore has the passion, the experience, or the skills of the average college girl who is into sex and willing to "experiment". I have dated women who fucked for free, and because they wanted to, and easily had a larger sexual appetite than me--and more than the average money grubbing, man hating porn chick as well.

The difference is that the sexual activity of the average porn whore is on display in her movies, and even if it is all an "act" it can be used as a comparison to the sexual experiences of the typical consumer. MY desires have more to do with personal attraction to a specific woman than they do to some idealized notion of a "porn whore".

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Would I? You know, the hearts wants what it wants.

Just my 2 cents.
Barry




This post was all about what you would give up to satisfy what the heart wants. Giving up a career as Governor of South Carolina to fly to South America to fuck some whore is a bigger sacrifice than Billy Bob skipping out of his shift on the French Fry machine at McDonald's to pick up $20 hooker for a blow job, isn't it? Or are they both the same to you?






The original question wasn't about the Gov of South Carolina and his whore or Billy Joe skipping the late shift to buy a blowjob. The question was "Would you marry an ex- porn actress?". I seriously doubt any of us are Brad Pitt or JFKJR. And I'd imagine most of us aren't just released from prison bukakke mopes either. The question was would any of us? I guess I was looking at it from my own perspective, as neither Brad Pitt or a bukakke mope, but as some 44 year old middle class guy. I would assume that any woman I'd be sparking in the parlour would be of similar age. If everything were going swimmingly otherwise, to be told that she did some porn 20 years before might take me aback some. But everything else being good, I'd still have to say that it probably wouldn't be a dealbreaker. I don't see what sacrifice I would be making. Sure, there's the chance someone might find out and the past might raise it's head, but like I said, we all did stupid shit when we were young. I wouldn't walk away from my home, my family, my cat, my friends for a woman. Any woman. If I were in love with a woman who had a past like that, I'd assume I'd make the same sacrifices that I'd make for any woman I was in love and ready to make a lifetime commitment with.

That said, if I were 25 or abouts, I doubt I'd sacrifice much for a girl who was a month out of the business. I guess it's all about where we are at in the period in our lives when this person enters our life.

If it makes me a mope that I can overlook a persons past, if they've turned it around and are a solid citizen, I guess I'm a mope. But that wasn't what you asked, until you refined it to the Governor or Billy Bob thing. Maybe that's what you should've asked. What would any of us ssacrifice to bang some whore, instead of the lifetime relationship quest that you originally asked.

Congrats on dating women who fuck for free.

Barry
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#461888 - 11/19/09 04:01 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Barry, go back to the original post. I think maybe we have traveled too far astray?

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#461889 - 11/19/09 04:36 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Anyway, it got me thinking. I always figured that there is a line in society that separates the lower class thug from the upper class "YUPPIE". Anybody who would have a serious relationship with a porn star (current or former) has no prospects in life other than pimp, involved in making porno movies, drugs, or maybe manual labor. No successful, intelligent man would have a relationship with a pornstar, would they?




I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career. I haven't a clue what most of my co-workers spouses do (never met 95% of them) and they only know something about mine because I chose to tell, I could have just as easily avoided the subject completely.

Secondly it is a mistake to think that even a highly intelligent man wouldn't be interested in a porn star -- I'm guessing no one here has a clue who my avatar is, but he is a writer who was absolutely obsessed with prostitutes, some of whom had a kind of fame -- the porn stars of their day. Read Bel-Ami whose title was stolen for a porn film (and numerous straight ones, none of which I've seen) or La maison Tellier.

Last comes the element of truth: the problem isn't so much class, but it is education and interests. Most porn chicks haven't finished high school let alone college. Many are as dumb as rocks. Marrying, as opposed to screwing one of them, makes no sense. There are of course exceptions and those would be just as marriageable, or not, as anyone else.
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#461890 - 11/19/09 04:44 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Barry, go back to the original post. I think maybe we have traveled too far astray?






OK, I looked. Still a good topic, by the way.

I still disagree with you, tho. I believe that because a girl did a porn stint she's not painted with that brush forever. You asked about ex- pw's. At my age, with a girl of a similar age, who was 5, 10, 15+ years out of the business, living a normal productive life as a citizen, and everything else being good, yes I would take them to meet the family. I believe people can change themselves.

I think where we're getting off the track is your definition of an ex- pw, and what they've done since becoming an ex- pw. Again, from my perspective as a non- pimp, non- ditch digger (I don't even mow my own lawn), non-porn producing, average Joe Sixpack 44 year old, if I met a girl and everything was going great and she copped to getting throatfucked on film in the 80's, but was an average Jane Sixpack since then (working a job, paying her taxes, living a normal life), it really wouldn't change the way I felt. I'm sure I'd secretly try to find her scenes. I'll admit to that. If in the middle of it all she announced that she was going to do some scenes for JM, well, that'd be a whole nother kettle of fish.

The fact is, thousands of girls have been "porn stars" since the Deep Throat era. I don't know the percentages, but I seriously doubt that every girl left the industry and blew their brains out on drugs, or married a ditch digger, or lived a sub- standard life. I'm sure plenty of them went to school, got counseling, whatever to put that life behind them. And I'm sure many of them married normal guys with jobs and prospects and moved on with life. Sure, you hear the horror stories of the Milton Twins, or the Ellie and SWCNBN sagea, or Savannah, or whoever. But I'd assume a pretty fair percentage do their time in the industry and move on.

I guess I'm saying it all depends on the individuals involved and what their comfort level is. And I guess I'm also saying that because you did some scenes, that doesn't have to define the rest of your life. I think that's where you and I part company. What I get from you is "once a pw, always a pw". I just don't feel that way. Money and societal standing don't mean that you have class. You mentioned Pitt and JFKJR earlier. First off, there's not much difference between Jolie and a porn whore. Pitt is a classless goofball. And the Kennedys. Richer than fuck, but what a collection of pieces of shit and dolts. What prospects would any of them have had if ol' Joe wasn't a rumrunner during Prohibition? None.

If I'm still off base, tell me how, because this is an interesting topic.

Barry
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#461891 - 11/19/09 04:52 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Anyway, it got me thinking. I always figured that there is a line in society that separates the lower class thug from the upper class "YUPPIE". Anybody who would have a serious relationship with a porn star (current or former) has no prospects in life other than pimp, involved in making porno movies, drugs, or maybe manual labor. No successful, intelligent man would have a relationship with a pornstar, would they?




I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career. I haven't a clue what most of my co-workers spouses do (never met 95% of them) and they only know something about mine because I chose to tell, I could have just as easily avoided the subject completely.

Secondly it is a mistake to think that even a highly intelligent man wouldn't be interested in a porn star -- I'm guessing no one here has a clue who my avatar is, but he is a writer who was absolutely obsessed with prostitutes, some of whom had a kind of fame -- the porn stars of their day. Read Bel-Ami whose title was stolen for a porn film (and numerous straight ones, none of which I've seen) or La maison Tellier.

Last comes the element of truth: the problem isn't so much class, but it is education and interests. Most porn chicks haven't finished high school let alone college. Many are as dumb as rocks. Marrying, as opposed to screwing one of them, makes no sense. There are of course exceptions and those would be just as marriageable, or not, as anyone else.




I guess I'm thinking of a no name who did a handful of scenes. That makes a "star" in this business. Not a household name like Jenna (yuck) or Nina Hartley or Jesse Jane.

I admit not knowing who your avatar is, but I've been describing myself as a bon vivant for about 2 weeks now.

Barry- Bon vivant and gadabout
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#461892 - 11/19/09 06:03 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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You miss the point. It isn't about the woman. It is about the people you must associate with (like them or hate them) and how it may impact your career. Don't you think you can find a woman who likes sex who didn't become a porn whore? Does every woman who didn't decide to make a porn movie hate sex?

Would you sacrifice a successful career to be with a porn whore? What about a prostitute?






Date one and you are a hero. Marry one and you have "issues".

Society is about acceptable norms. Example: Married guy living in a family neighborhood is accepted and included by all the married-family neighbors. Guy gets a divorce but stays in the neighborhood, he becomes a pariah. Same guy, same neighbors.

Most people don't marry other people who fuck on camera and show the movies to the world. Whether you consider it ok or not is not the point. It is outside the social norms, and therefore no good for being accepted. Dating one is a temporary fantasy and just playing around. Change the subject to devil worshipers, bondage types or followers of Santería and you get the same result. You don't fit in.

Job applications these days have drug tests, criminal checks, reference checks and previous job histories. Why? Companies do not want a potentially embarrassing situation on their hands. Head of Corporate Council's wife on youtube shoving a beer bottle up her ass? Not good publicity.

Is he or she a good person? Soul mate? Does not matter in the context of your query.

Marry one? Not advisable. All women fuck. Want good fucking? Find a horny housewife that wants to play. No need to kill a life in the process.

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#461893 - 11/19/09 06:10 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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One of my employees, a young professional, was dating an asian massage parlour girl, he would show up with her at various office functions at which she dressed in a most skanky and unprfoessional. He revelled in the fact that she looked like the whore she was. He liked to remind his co-workers that she was a whore. He thought it was cool, most people thought it was degrading to her.

Ultimately, he was let go. Not specifically because of his girlfriend (it didn't last that long), but because of his poor judgment. Parading around his whore was just one example of it.

In other cases, I have friends and colleagues who are in long term relationships with retired strippers - can't say if they were escorts, and there is no problem at all. As both the man and the woman present themselves as mature professionals, even if one of them was in the skin trade.

I think the bottom line is that the issue is more the maturity of the people involved, and how they choose to present themselves, rather than what they used to do before embarking on their current career.
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#461894 - 11/19/09 08:52 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Only if it was Lubben.

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#461895 - 11/19/09 11:47 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Only if it was Lubben.




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#461896 - 11/19/09 12:44 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Yes , it all depends. I was enganged to Hayapatia Lee for about six months. But she decided to go to LA and stop stripping. So in effect, I would not have married a porn star.
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#461898 - 11/19/09 12:55 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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#461899 - 11/19/09 01:09 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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It can happen, but it is rare. My husband is not in the business and is very successful, and intelligent. Not everyone he works with knows what I do though. We try to keep our private life private.

Then again...we were already married for many years when I decided to take the plunge from stripping to porn and we discussed it fully.
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#461900 - 11/19/09 01:21 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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So, O white-trashy-one, in essence, "Mr. Keys" didn't opt to marry a girl already a porn star. One morning he woke up married to a stripper. A few days/weeks later he woke up married to a porn star.

How long to the "discussion" turn to GFEs? Or is he already married to a hooker? [not that there's anything much more wrong with that than the other ...]
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#461901 - 11/19/09 01:29 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I would be willing to marry a former PW, but the criteria and conditions would probably narrow the pool down to about three. Therefore, it is extremely unlikely that it will happen.
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#461902 - 11/19/09 04:12 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I would marry Gia!!!

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#461903 - 11/19/09 05:04 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career.




It is my fault for not doing a better job of laying out the dilemma in my invented scenario.

Could you use your imagination and invent a situation (no matter how fantastical) where a fictional person (not yourself) has a job that might suffer (either because of clients, co-workers, or bosses) if they married a woman who has pornographic pictures and movies readily available on the internet?

So far nobody responding on this thread can even conceive of such a situation. Am I really so far off base? Could President Obama still have been elected if he was married to a porn actress? What if she did bestiality porn? What about your local pastor? What about the CEO of Proctor & Gamble? An FBI or CIA agent? A junior executive whose boss is a born again christian? An advertising executive whose clients include "wholesome" family values companies? An army general being considered for a fourth star? An upper class family in New England whose father is the president of the uptight country club? Anybody with a mother?

You really can't imagine a life where this sort of thing matters? Nobody else can either? It is easier to imagine getting married to a porn star than having a career or life where that would be a negative thing?

It is one thing to respond saying that to a specific person it does not matter (I can get that), but the responses from people who can't imagine how it could possibly matter to anybody are a bit unexpected.
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#461905 - 11/19/09 05:42 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Could President Obama still have been elected if he was married to a porn actress?




As of 2007, I thought a guy had a better chance getting elected married to a porn star than married to a black woman.
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#461906 - 11/19/09 06:10 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Marriage is a archaic institution, and I don't wish to be institutionalized. You will only truely know a women when she divorces you. Then you see the succubus demon she truly is
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#461907 - 11/19/09 06:16 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Only if it was Lubben.




I would hope ONLY to smack your cock on her forehead repeatedly & remind her it’s all in the name of Jesus.



I figure that marrying me would be far more humiliating than anything she would have ever done in porn.

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#461908 - 11/19/09 07:02 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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So, O white-trashy-one, in essence, "Mr. Keys" didn't opt to marry a girl already a porn star. One morning he woke up married to a stripper. A few days/weeks later he woke up married to a porn star.

How long to the "discussion" turn to GFEs? Or is he already married to a hooker? [not that there's anything much more wrong with that than the other ...]


he didn't "wake up" married to anything. I wouldn't make the choice to do something like get into the adult industry without consulting him. Nor would he without consulting me. We both believe that honesty and mutual respect are important in our relationship. Had he not been comfortable with it, I wouldn't have done it. I love what I do, but it wouldn't be worth risking my marriage over. And no gfe/hooker discussion. That's not something iM comfortable with doing, so I don't.
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#461909 - 11/19/09 07:06 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I have the killer question. "Do you like reading, and discussing books together"

Wham! In porn valley that would limit me to Holly Randall.


we do enjoy that actually!
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#461910 - 11/19/09 07:32 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I would be willing to marry a former PW, but the criteria and conditions would probably narrow the pool down to about three. Therefore, it is extremely unlikely that it will happen.




I have the killer question. "Do you like reading, and discussing books together"

Wham! In porn valley that would limit me to Holly Randall.




Holly Randall is neither an "ex-porn actress" / former PW nor a potential polyandrist (I think...) - so you're down to zero.

"Porn actress" is an oxymoron anyway, isn't it?

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#461912 - 11/19/09 08:19 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Dirty Didi! I want to be as scary as Ben Kingsley was in that movie. No one would fuck with me on MUNI, ever.

I would marry a pornstar, but only if her name was Gia Jordan.



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#461913 - 11/19/09 08:21 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Barnyard's Pinupmutant!?!? Haven't see you in like a dog's age.

Hope all is well, girl.
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#461914 - 11/19/09 08:48 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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Marriage is a archaic institution, and I don't wish to be institutionalized. You will only truely know a women when she divorces you. Then you see the succubus demon she truly is



If you've never spoken the truth before you sure as fuck just did !
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#461915 - 11/19/09 10:53 PM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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I think you are both onto something and way off base. First of all, I don't see how marrying an (ex) porn star can be detrimental to your career.




It is my fault for not doing a better job of laying out the dilemma in my invented scenario.

Could you use your imagination and invent a situation (no matter how fantastical) where a fictional person (not yourself) has a job that might suffer (either because of clients, co-workers, or bosses) if they married a woman who has pornographic pictures and movies readily available on the internet?

So far nobody responding on this thread can even conceive of such a situation. Am I really so far off base? Could President Obama still have been elected if he was married to a porn actress? What if she did bestiality porn? What about your local pastor? What about the CEO of Proctor & Gamble? An FBI or CIA agent? A junior executive whose boss is a born again christian? An advertising executive whose clients include "wholesome" family values companies? An army general being considered for a fourth star? An upper class family in New England whose father is the president of the uptight country club? Anybody with a mother?

You really can't imagine a life where this sort of thing matters? Nobody else can either? It is easier to imagine getting married to a porn star than having a career or life where that would be a negative thing?

It is one thing to respond saying that to a specific person it does not matter (I can get that), but the responses from people who can't imagine how it could possibly matter to anybody are a bit unexpected.





OK. I get it now. You just had it presented a different way. I can agree with this scenario. I still kind of disagree with the class issue, but I can see how certain jobs/ bosses might be problematic. I doubt my job would like it, but I guess it would be a matter of discretion. I mean, who wants to be the guy who walks into the bosses office and say "i was watching an interracial gangbang scene and so and so's wife was the guest of honor". I can see how it might cause trouble. I guess that's the decision you have to make. Can you steel yourself enough to be prepared for the day your secret comes out.

Barry
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#461916 - 11/20/09 12:16 AM Re: Would you marry an ex-porn actress?
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OK. I get it now. You just had it presented a different way. I can agree with this scenario. I still kind of disagree with the class issue, but I can see how certain jobs/ bosses might be problematic. I doubt my job would like it, but I guess it would be a matter of discretion. I mean, who wants to be the guy who walks into the bosses office and say "i was watching an interracial gangbang scene and so and so's wife was the guest of honor". I can see how it might cause trouble. I guess that's the decision you have to make. Can you steel yourself enough to be prepared for the day your secret comes out.

Barry




I think you're getting close. I also suspect you are a bit smarter and more honest than the average person here.

I used to scrub toilets and mop floors and had a thousand other menial labor shit jobs I hated and I bit my fucking tongue and I did every one of them better than anybody else around me. I enlisted in the military to "escape". And I moved on.

I see a movie like "Sexy Beast" and I get a bit nostalgic and sentimental. A man is unapologetically in love with his ex-pornstar wife and happy. I pop into XPT and surf a little porn and I see pages of beautiful, sexy women who I'd love to spend a night with... I'd love to spend a life with. I think to myself, "What a silly fantasy! You know you could never be with a porn star." It makes me a bit sad and conflicted. I decide to post a new thread to discuss it and I'm met with a slightly more diplomatic version of:

"YO Doood, u be wack, everybody be luvin it if they girl was a big ole porn whore with the big titties and the tight pussie you could fuck every night and all those guys down at my parole office would have to give up mad props, yo!"

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