I just don't get the constant feeling here that you need to prove your site is better than ADT or that it's better than your site. They are two very distinctive sites and I think anyone who's been on both can agree on that. Now what can't be agreed on and most likely never will be is which site is better. There is no way to prove this either way. Those that like this site can list reasons to the sky why they like XXXPorntalk better and that's very valid. Those who like ADT better can also list reasons up to the sky as well. Each side is right and I think most have made their minds up so why the constant need to stroke your ego's is beyond me. Enjoy the site you have and let it go!