i think you are all right on some level...I don't think all this was her intention..but sometimes people tend to get caught up in their own worlds and forget about the people outside of it.

Outside of the porn world..the world of the fans..you will find ex-military, lawyers, teachers, etc. i.e people who not only know how to but actually read for pleasure and as sources of information. Which means many people can therefore can put 2 and 2 together.

I don't however think this was malicious.