thank you guys for answering. are there any women that can weigh in here, like Gen perhaps? I guess another thing that mystifies me is that often you'll see these beautiful young girls doing the raunchiest things, and sometimes it's shocking cause you'd think they could probably do so much "more" (IE something dignified) to earn a living, and they also look like the girl next door or your sister and wonder where they come from -- but back to doing it if you're a guy, i guess disease and being recognized if you have another career aren't much of a deterrant?