Look im not trying to be distasteful or start anything with this, its just a mere question. I saw the sad news that her man was killed , damn shame, i know the feeling sort of BUT then i read she is having a party (non related of course). Exactly how long ago did he pass?, did it happen a long while back and only became public in the last week or so, or was it made public right around the time it happened. This ones a bit of a head scratcher. I mean if it was recent it seems a little sudden to pick yourself back up and move on with your life, doesn't it?.