This is a bit of a convoluted story so bear with me.
It starts with a child, who I will refer to as Homer, being born in 1955 Detroit. He joined the US Army around 1975. He was later deployed to Weisbaden, Germany.
Homer fathered Diamond Kitty in Miami, Florida in 1983, to a Puerto Rican baby momma. Diamond started her career in adult entertainment in 2008 as a webcam model. After searching for agencies and joining Adult Talent Managers, Diamond successfully launched her career. She performed through 2020. She currently is very active on Instagram and other social media, openly linking her stage name with her real name.
While in Weisbaden, Germany, Homer and a different Puerto Rican baby momma gave birth to Shy Love. In 1985, The Homer family, which included Shy Love and her five sisters, moved to New Haven, Connecticut, when she was seven. Shy later earned a bachelor's and master's degree in accounting. Shy first began performing in hardcore movies in her mid-20s in 2003 and continued through 2016. Shy Love today is married and has 2 adult children, works as a life coach and seems to have embraced the connection between her stage name and her real name.
Desi Foxx was born in Michigan in 1960. At some point she married Homer, likely after meeting Homer in Detroit. They later moved to Florida. While living in Florida, Homer introduced Desi into the swinger lifestyle. He later divorced her, leaving her financially strapped while raising her then near-adult child. Desi often commented on xxxporntalk, while receiving the usual hard time from its regular members.
Homer and Desi gave birth to Elli Foxx in 1986, in Michigan. She moved to Florida with her parents at a fairly young age. Elli started in the business in 2006 and continued making videos until 2011. Prior to entering the business, Eli was the manager at a veterinarian office and grooming shop.
After observing Elli having a small success in the industry, Desi concocted a plan to also get into the industry while advertising as a mother and daughter team. Desi made her first video in 2008, and performed with her daughter in multiple sex scenes over the next two years. Elli said, "It was pretty uncomfortable, Like the most uncomfortable porn set I've ever been on. There were times where, before we even got to it, where I almost walked out and said, we're not doing it. Because they were taking their time and they weren't really trying to get us in and out. And I am like, you know we have just got to do this, get it in and out. I don't want to be here all day thinking about it."
In mid 2009, after becoming infamous and not finding the money in porn as she expected, Desi became disenfranchised with the business. She was then severely impacted by the pornwikileaks public disclosure of Desi and Elli's private information stored on the Adult Industry Medical Healthcare Foundation (AIM) servers. The AIDS Healthcare Foundation (AHF) then used Desi and Elli Foxx to file a class action lawsuit against AIM for damages. The settlement of the lawsuit included provisions for changes in practices and policies related to the issues raised in the lawsuit. Desi and Elli likely received nothing in the settlement. Desi, doing interviews about the lawsuit and suggesting who was behind the leaks, quickly received the ire and harassment of Doony. Desi later paired up with fellow Doony victim Monica Foster on a youtube channel to talk about their grievances.
Lacking cash, and still looking for easy money, Desi and Elli started working at the Bunny Ranch. They even had mother and daughter sessions available. Desi wrote, "We absolutely love it here and I can safely say that if we would've checked this out first, we would've never made it to porn. At least not the way we did it lol. Dennis is the best and will handle our PR and marketing going forward. He's the most active and forward thinking man I've met in the adult industry so we are definitely in the best place here. They have a wonderful system and all the girls are beautiful and so nice. After spending a couple days here, we can definitely see why it's such a successful business. They have the most beautiful girls, everyone has a lot of fun and so far, the guys have been very nice looking."
However Desi and Elli were not making much money at the brothel and they quit. Desi Later accused the brothel owner Dennis Hof of assault. Desi said, "I was at one end of the bar he was sitting at the bar and he called me over, you know. I was thinking we were going to talk about something, and he just grabbed me and stuck his hand up my, you know, clothes -- it was kind of more like a lingerie type dress -- and, you know, proceeded to molest me. I tried to pull away from him, you know, kind of laughing it off and pushing it away. And he had his fingers inside me and so he actually gripped me so I couldn't leave. When he didn't stop, I faked a quick orgasm and he let go."
Catching up to today, Desi has largely returned to an anonymous life, living in Florida. She works as an insurance broker. Elli now lives is Florida and seems to be the only porn family member who made it out relatively OK. She married a year ago and now has a baby.

Maybe 18 years from now we will see the first grandmom, mom, daughter porn.