We are henceforth ugly, violent, exploitive, crass, cruel, sadistic, insensitive, unkind, mean, stupid, criminal, irredeemable. Not that the erotic doesn't sometimes contain these elements but the essential sensuality and longing has gone missing from us forever more. Truly our flesh is now sin. The erotic is only now to be found in the rest of the animal and plant kingdoms. Like the hotness of lion sex. Or those big snails in 'Microcosmos'. Or even spiders, where the tiny male very cautiously mounts the gigantic female clearly in full knowledge that he is probably in grave danger but can't help himself. And if you never been to a flower hothouse like for orchids and shit I really recommend it. In fact if you are looking for a good first date to facillitate a lady letting you treat her like a human garbage can for your rancid ranging dick then: orchid factory with steam. It'll make her dream even though she is as dead inside as you are.