I don't think it is correct to take this fellow to task for not knowing performer names in this age of interweb and also because of the fact that pornography is increasingly an industry in which identities and ultimately lives are obliterated and destroyed. Presumably what you doremember about this pornography are the nature of the sex acts depicted, and therefor my advice would be to put specific search terms based on these acts into clipsite search engines and go through the results until eventually hopefully you find your lost love. Best of luck.