Many times, far more than I've been hit on openly by women. Evidently, I've got a rugged look that the boys enjoy, and they see through my suit and tie nonsense too, in fact, I'm not a big suit guy, but most of the time dudes have hit on me, I've been in a suit at some sort of function.

When it happens, first of all, I'm polite, I know how tough it can be to go up to a chick I find attractive, I can only imagine it's tougher for a gay fella. Imflattered, every single gay man I've met has better style and self awareness than I do, most are better looking than me, and most ive gotten to know have seemed like genuinely better people than I am. Part of me I guess also feels a brief bout of embarrassment, almost subconsciously, probably because of my dopey upbringing.

I think I just try to be honest, let them know I'm flattered but that I'm very straight. I had one dude hook me up with a smoking hot legit NY 9 because of how I reacts to him. Another shared his A+ coke. A couple didn't want to take no for an answer,but chicks do that too.