^^^ No, she was batshit crazy. We were out back having a smoke on her back steps and she burst into tears and jumped into my arms for no apparent reason. After asking what's up, she claimed she was communicating with my dead brother who wanted me to acknowledge his presence and accept his apology for something. I told her I couldn't see him, so I would instead acknowledge the wild bush growing in her back yard and accept its apology. Then she clocked me.
As far as hitting her back, her two young kids were sleeping just inside. A few hours later, she drove them to school drunk while I was passed out on the couch. Every woman I meet is a fucking train wreck.
Wow! Uhhh it sounds like she was going to confess that she fucked your brother before he died and wanted to have mad passionate makeup sex with you as her way of settling the matter.
Of course like all men - you made a faux pas and set the terms right away on sex instead of dragging the dirty little secret slowly out of her. Now she is under no obligation (in her mind) to ever tell you the secret.
Mothers teach their daughters this trick everyday.
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