neither, i was on vacation and we were staying in the same hotel and started fucking that night and dated for about a year or two while I was still teaching HS. She flew me to LA and I hung out at the hotel while she shot scenes and then we did tourist crap and she flew me to Tampa for the Nightmoves show where I met all kinds of porn stars and had a blast. That kinda showed me that I could hang in this business. And she featured in San Antonio so we could spend a few days together as well. It was a fun time in my life. She is a great person that I enjoyed being around.