That is what years of swinging will do for your discretionary taste.

I call it "your eyes adjusting to the light in the room". I have found while at swing parties, I was willing to fuck below my standards. This is the equivalent of eating bad food at a party because there is so much of it around sitting in bowls and trays and you are near by and hungry.

My definition of a unicorn in swinging is a young hot woman who is height/weight proportionate, not whether she shows up as a single female.