Not every man and woman thinks exactly the same way about people and situations in life.

I sustained a great relationship for 4 and a half years while doing hardcore porn. My reason for leaving had nothing to do with porn. In fact I left while I was going to med school simply because I didn't see him being the one I could picture my life with even a few years down the road. The end of our relationship turned into a friendship and very functional room mates. He was first generation American from a French Father and German Mother. He nor his family had issues with my working with any race. (And duh, yes they knew of my work. You can't hide that shit. If you need to be secretive then get the fuck out.)

Now I'm married about 4 years. There's no ill judgement on my life choices. Nor do I have any towards him for his choices either (even though he's not a porn star, guys and girls make "stupid" promiscuous choices in college that are deemed more unsafe than a regularly tested performer).

It seems as though the people who have trouble swallowing the hard to believe scenarios of life are the ones who aren't happy with themselves, don't have a sense of purpose or drive in life, feel lost with no sense of belonging, surely aren't confident with themselves by questioning everything they do and criticize others constantly by way of their insecurity. Because I have yet to meet someone who isn't that way who jumps to ignorant conclusions, racial assumptions and irrational ideas of what they think life is like for a porn star during and after her career.

As I've said before... you just attract the kind of people that reflect who you are. If you're a shit bag then you'll find nothing but shit bags who will treat you like a shit bag. It's pretty damn simple. Some of you people over complicate things.