I'd hate to break character here, BDM, but human beings can't really help what they're attracted to. When you see a hot piece of ass in a miniskirt bent over in the supermarket, do you tell your dick to get hard? Excepting the extremely open-minded, dudes don't just up and decide that they like them some dick. They have hormonal imbalances and can't really help being gay. If you think it's some kind of conscious decision, than by that admission, we're all gay and just choose to be straight.

Unless your talking about the gay for pay guys. If that's the case, go ahead and ignore what I posted above.