You said "A girl we could fantasize about not just fucking- but marrying."

You will never ever get an entire crowd of porn admirers to look at an adult performer as someone who is ideal to marry. Because regardless if she does the really rough stuff or does pretty sex like vivid style, even with condom, no vast majority of man will ever see a woman ideal to marry as long as she fucks on camera whether it be for compensation or fun. Besides, that defeats the whole purpose of a girl being a porn star. Being a porn star is not about making these guys going ape shit cuz they wanna marry you.

You also said "A girl whom we'd want to read about in the gossip columns- but not for being a whore."

I'd like to fully believe that there are a good handful of people on this message board who look forward to chatting with nothing only myself but even Kami not just because we're whores but we have just enough intellect to get by, say things how they are, discuss other things in life other than fucking and gain some respect from those amongst the board as well. So don't make it out that there is no one in this industry involved in a message board with no credibility.

YOU CANNOT compare any woman in this industry to Jessica Simpson. Those are two totally different people that you can not validly make wishes like that. Did you ever see the episode where she ignorantly says strippers are prostitutes? And her husband begged to differ? It's cuz of her own insecurity of not knowing a damn bit of what a dancer really is or what she does. She said something like that cuz she would never have the balls to dance to begin with. That's how I see it anyhow. And i'm not saying every woman should dance either. A girl can not dance and not agree with it but still respect those that do it if they happily choose to do so. But Jessica still has a lot to learn and catch up on in the REAL world. Not her celebrity world.

Just because a woman promotes safe sex on camera doesn't mean she's going to gain anymore respect or viewers from it. The vast majority of those watching porn aren't thinking about why she isn't wearing a condom. I wonder if she has HIV or some other STD. The sole purpose of watching pornography is to gratify oneself or the other not to wonder otherwise.

Also you need to not generalize women in the industry because not every female in this industry escorts. I don't. Not every woman in this industry abuses drugs or alcohol. In which I don't. Not every woman in this industry depends on porn to make a few bucks here and there. You're the reason why poeple keep the generalization to a negative stance. And it needs to stop. Your ignorance and illogical wishful thinking is getting nowhere other than preaching like some pentacostal preacher making a fool of himself.

Bottom line you can't change an entire worlds view of ANYTHING! So give me another lame reason why I could never go against all the political bastards!