You are so right. In one office where I worked there were a couple of us who were a little rambunctious about discussing the porn events we went to the night before and a couple of the "feminist" ladies in the office would look at us with contempt.

There was this one dude who played the "feminist" card with these ladies and they adored him and a couple of them even dated him for a short period.

He was a complete user and fucked the "feminist" ladies in the office he dated over hardcore by cheating on them, being emotionally abusive, etc.

The people talking about porn would have been much better dating material for the "feminist" ladies, but porn is so evil and degrading to women so the "feminist" dude is a much better man in their eyes.

This dude loved to set up conflict for his own amusement. He would individually approach persons A and B and intimate that A was talking shit about B (to B) and then say that B was talking shit about A (to A). He would sit back and watch the fireworks.