Geez Gia, it's easy as pie to get a lap dance & I didn't say I was looking for a sincere lap dance from a sensitive and caring stripper. All I was sayin' before was there are bitches who don't give a shit about you and/or what they do in strip clubs like anywhere else. What's so difficult about understanding that? Why are you so touchy about it? It's a great way to make a buck if you can handle it. There are places with bouncers who are on the look out for those who just nurse drinks. Most places want you to buy booze which is where they make their money.