That is why I would never date a porn star. Last things I want a woman to have are self esteem and positive feelings. Well...those are right behind vocal chords and opinions.
That can't be the only reason. Or do you have a jacked up truck, closet full of Affliction shirts and a budding DJ career you've not shared with the group?
Yeah, there's never a box to click on aff to screen out voices and thoughts.