Come on. Guy is a fucking General. It is a time of war still right? Dude should be able to fuck whoever he can, as a thank you for his service to the country.

Emails would be the other shoe to drop makes sense. Everyone tries to spin it that McGreevey resigned from NJ Gov because he is gay. Nope. He resigned because he got caught trying to shoe horn his foreign born boy toy into NJ's Homeland Security position.

Therefore I can see this dude let her see some emails and it costing him his job. They probably want to keep that part off the record, so no one pries into what the emails said.