Thanks Ren, its about time someone noticed!
I understand being stuck, bodies at rest tend to stay at rest.
I have to force myself to buy the ticket first, instead of worrying about this or that, hurricanes or earthquakes, malaria or underwear bombers, etc. Then, once the airfare has been paid and I'm committed, everything else seems to fall into place.
Sometimes you've just gotta say "fuck it", and go.