i thought the list was idealistic....as a female my list was somewhat like that...(minus the reading music and cuff links)..then I got older..provided most of it for myself (graduate school, living within a budger, car within budget..etc) so the list took on more values such as

..honesty
..can admit how he feels (even if it is plotting my death)
.. stable job.... a union one is a bonus of 2 pts
.. a functional family or realizes his is disfunctional..but loves them anyway
you know life changes us all.