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Now here's a guy that's seemingly spent his entire life on the pages of ADT. He rarely posts anything less than 500 words. In fact, if you compile all of his posts into one big compendium, it would make War and Peace look like a travel brochure. To his credit, he comes across as educated and likeable most of the time. This however does not exonerate him from the facepalm kingdom when it comes to the notion of what he claims as being "open minded". Have fun. It's a long one. I don't blame you if you don't read it.
" I actually do think the male talent is VERY important (beyond his ability to perform, which is an obvious prerequisite for porn). It does matter whether or not he looks like a guy who could bag the chicks that he's banging.
I don't mind if I seem a little gay(ish) for my opinions. Obviously, porn is one of those things where every man watching is going to mentally superimpose himself over the guy who's in the film. Some of us (who may not be studs IRL) may have aspirations of being studly. I know that in all my fantasies, I'm not an out of shape 30 something guy with a bad haircut and a 5 O clock shadow. I'm a stud in my fantasies! LOL!
Some guys in porn just don't know how to fuck and most especially, how to convey the sense that they're enjoying themselves to the viewer. OK...so he has a boner so he's obviously having fun but I think, usually, it takes more than just displaying or keeping your wood (although that obviously helps) to convey what you're feeling, thinking and/or how much you're enjoying yourself.
It does bother me if I'm watching a scene with an unbelievably hot girl, who I've seen in other flicks and I know she can put on a good show, and the dude is semi hard. The guys who can't get and keep good wood just shouldn't be working in porn (not as a performer anyway). If he usually performs and he's just having a bad day, the scene should be scrapped and the producer should just swallow the expense (as hard as that may be and I have no doubt that it is). If I rent or buy a flick that disappoints me, I might rent another one by the same company with the same talent but if I get two or three disappointing titles in a row, I cut my losses and move on. One of my biggest pet peeves is poor male talent. When everything else is exactly right (and it seems to be on a depressingly regular basis), poor male talent can completely ruin a potentially great flick.
I want to see a guy who'll just dive in there and lap up the sex the way I would (or at least, the way I would in my ideal fantasy) if I got so lucky as to have a one night stand with someone like Jenna Haze.
And let's face it guys...big cocks really are better for porn. True, not every man has or needs a big cock but porn is a visual medium. But it does turn me on a lot more to see a hottie swallowing a big, HARD dick than a small, semi hard dick. Just being honest. I'm a porn fan. You watch porn, you're gonna see a lot of dicks one way or another. They might as well be the best cocks in the business."