Onward we ride!!!
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Here's the classic, "I just phase it out, and it's all good dawg!" approach from one "Dan"
"I have no problem with the kind of sex action you've described, because I focus my attention on the lady and not on the guys. I try to unite my mind with that of the lady and imagine how she feels. And this kind of thing leaves no room in my mind for imagining how the guys feel. I see their bodies, but their minds are closed to me, which prevents me from thinking how these guys might feel about having their cocks so close together.
And this isn't something I have to do deliberately. It just happens automatically for me. Perhaps this is the usual way fully heterosexual men feel in a group sex situation. They unite their feelings and minds with the woman and not with other guys."