It "feels delightful" - Massachusetts, Age 36
I remember the first time - my boyfriend said, "we're gonna have anal sex" the first weekend we were together. I thought, "Yeah, right!" My boyfriend and I started going out three years ago and we'd known each other ten years at that point. I'm not sure how I would have felt if I'd barely known him!
But, I was so curious after that comment! He promised that it wouldn't hurt and that if it did, he would stop immediately... He had a store of KY Jelly on hand. First he licked and sucked me - he made me cum a few times. And we did have vaginal sex with me coming, and him not.
I remember him turning me over so that I was lying on my stomach... he licked my asshole, over and over, while his hands played with my pussy... it was so yummy... I knew what we were about to do, so I don't remember actually cumming at that point... I was just a little too scared.
After awhile, one of hands came 'round to play with my asshole rather than my pussy... I remember that I was very excited - it felt wonderful to have his mouth and hands at my pussy as well as have his fingers playing near my asshole. And then, a finger slipped into my ass, so gently and so slowly, that it felt wonderful, not scary at all.
I know that this felt delightful...
After I was moaning, and he had succeeded in getting two fingers gently inside my ass, he readjusted so that I was underneath and he on top... Very gently, he put his lubed cock right at my ass, and still gently, pushed the tip of his cock against it. I know he was playing with the lube, because I felt the cold liquid lube at my ass where his cock was.
He gently, firmly, pushed with the head of his cock against my ass... I told him I was scared, and he again promised that he'd stop at any time. He put his hand near my face, gently stroking, promising that he'd never hurt me. The fact that he was listening, willing to stop for me, in spite of his own pleasure, helped me to be willing to try the next part... Gently, firmly, slowly, steadily, he pushed his hard cock against my asshole... It was slippery, warm, big, exciting... And it never hurt! He pushed gently until the head of his cock got past the outer ring.
Halfway in, not all the way in, he murmured gently against my ear, "How are you? Does it hurt? Should I stop?" I murmured back, "I'm fine, it doesn't hurt! Go slowly, but go inside my ass."
I loved the feeling once his cock was inside. I couldn't believe it! It did not hurt, I felt so full, complete...
Anal sex is one of our passions. We have anal sex about one in every three times we make love. We've been together three years and I come just by anal sex alone or playing with sex toys in my pussy and his cock in my ass.......
I think our sex life is much fuller because he wasn't afraid to talk to me about anal sex. I had always been curious, but until I was with a man who knew what to do (or had read up on it enough so that he BELIEVED he knew what to do!) I was just too scared to really talk about it, never mind try anal sex. And now it's a "regular" part of our sex life!
Who'd have guessed????