A long weekend - Mindy, Rochester, NY

When my boyfriend first asked me to have anal sex with him, I wasn't too sure I'd like it. Still, I like to try everything at least once, so, we spent a few evenings reading everything we could about it, bought several brands of lube which we first tried with different sized dildos to see which allowed easier penetration, bought several body oils and scented bath salts and reserved a hotel suite with a Jacuzzi for a long weekend.

At the hotel, we had dinner on the terrace, a bottle and a half of wine and spent a long time just sitting next to each other, totally relaxed.

When we finally went in to the bedroom, Jerry, who seemed a little tense told me that maybe it wasn't a good idea after all, because he was afraid of hurting me. He's rather well endowed and I knew the thought of his size had crossed both our minds more than a few times, but I wouldn't hear of it. We had talked about wanting to have anal sex together long enough for me to insist we at least try to do it.

We kissed for a while, touched each other all over, undressed each other quietly and then he laid me down on the bed and started licking me all over. When he started darting his tongue in and out of my anus, I was so worked up, I came within a minute. It was fantastic!!!

Although I was already wet enough to be penetrated, Jerry applied a generous amount of lube in and around my anus, while working two fingers in and out of me. One of the books we had read said that the easiest positions are for the woman to be on her side or on her back. I always thought that doggie was *the* anal position, but I guess someone else knew better.

So, I propped myself on a couple of pillows and lay on my side at the edge of the bed while Jerry rubbed more lube on his penis. He gently placed the head at the opening of my anus and ever so slowly eased it in. He held it there for a second and asked if I was ok, which I was. So, my ass wasn't exactly used to having something go into it, and it felt a bit strange at first, but it really didn't hurt. I asked him to push a bit more in and he did, pausing from time to time to make sure I wasn't getting ripped apart. When he finally pushed it all the way in, I was moving around and pushing back to take it all in. It was simply wonderful!! We spent the rest of the weekend trying out differnt positions and enjoying this new side of our relationship.

It's been a year since our first anal experience and we still don't get enough of it. I now enjoy having him enter me in one (slightly rough) thrust and then pull it all the way out and re-enter me in fast, long strokes. We still have vaginal sex from time to time, but both of us tend to look forward to our backdoor fun all the time.

Don't wait....try it out today. You'll love every second of it!