A long weekend - Mindy, Rochester, NY

When my boyfriend first asked me to have anal sex with him, I wasn't too sure I'd like it. Still, I like to try everything at least once, so, we spent a few evenings reading everything we could about it, bought several brands of lube which we first tried with different sized dildos to see which allowed easier penetration, bought several body oils and scented bath salts and reserved a hotel suite with a Jacuzzi for a long weekend.

At the hotel, we had dinner on the terrace, a bottle and a half of wine and spent a long time just sitting next to each other, totally relaxed.

When we finally went in to the bedroom, Jerry, who seemed a little tense told me that maybe it wasn't a good idea after all, because he was afraid of hurting me. He's rather well endowed and I knew the thought of his size had crossed both our minds more than a few times, but I wouldn't hear of it. We had talked about wanting to have anal sex together long enough for me to insist we at least try to do it.

We kissed for a while, touched each other all over, undressed each other quietly and then he laid me down on the bed and started licking me all over. When he started darting his tongue in and out of my anus, I was so worked up, I came within a minute. It was fantastic!!!

Although I was already wet enough to be penetrated, Jerry applied a generous amount of lube in and around my anus, while working two fingers in and out of me. One of the books we had read said that the easiest positions are for the woman to be on her side or on her back. I always thought that doggie was *the* anal position, but I guess someone else knew better.

So, I propped myself on a couple of pillows and lay on my side at the edge of the bed while Jerry rubbed more lube on his penis. He gently placed the head at the opening of my anus and ever so slowly eased it in. He held it there for a second and asked if I was ok, which I was. So, my ass wasn't exactly used to having something go into it, and it felt a bit strange at first, but it really didn't hurt. I asked him to push a bit more in and he did, pausing from time to time to make sure I wasn't getting ripped apart. When he finally pushed it all the way in, I was moving around and pushing back to take it all in. It was simply wonderful!! We spent the rest of the weekend trying out differnt positions and enjoying this new side of our relationship.

It's been a year since our first anal experience and we still don't get enough of it. I now enjoy having him enter me in one (slightly rough) thrust and then pull it all the way out and re-enter me in fast, long strokes. We still have vaginal sex from time to time, but both of us tend to look forward to our backdoor fun all the time.

Don't wait....try it out today. You'll love every second of it!

It "feels delightful" - Massachusetts, Age 36

I remember the first time - my boyfriend said, "we're gonna have anal sex" the first weekend we were together. I thought, "Yeah, right!" My boyfriend and I started going out three years ago and we'd known each other ten years at that point. I'm not sure how I would have felt if I'd barely known him!

But, I was so curious after that comment! He promised that it wouldn't hurt and that if it did, he would stop immediately... He had a store of KY Jelly on hand. First he licked and sucked me - he made me cum a few times. And we did have vaginal sex with me coming, and him not.

I remember him turning me over so that I was lying on my stomach... he licked my asshole, over and over, while his hands played with my pussy... it was so yummy... I knew what we were about to do, so I don't remember actually cumming at that point... I was just a little too scared.

After awhile, one of hands came 'round to play with my asshole rather than my pussy... I remember that I was very excited - it felt wonderful to have his mouth and hands at my pussy as well as have his fingers playing near my asshole. And then, a finger slipped into my ass, so gently and so slowly, that it felt wonderful, not scary at all.

I know that this felt delightful...

After I was moaning, and he had succeeded in getting two fingers gently inside my ass, he readjusted so that I was underneath and he on top... Very gently, he put his lubed cock right at my ass, and still gently, pushed the tip of his cock against it. I know he was playing with the lube, because I felt the cold liquid lube at my ass where his cock was.

He gently, firmly, pushed with the head of his cock against my ass... I told him I was scared, and he again promised that he'd stop at any time. He put his hand near my face, gently stroking, promising that he'd never hurt me. The fact that he was listening, willing to stop for me, in spite of his own pleasure, helped me to be willing to try the next part... Gently, firmly, slowly, steadily, he pushed his hard cock against my asshole... It was slippery, warm, big, exciting... And it never hurt! He pushed gently until the head of his cock got past the outer ring.

Halfway in, not all the way in, he murmured gently against my ear, "How are you? Does it hurt? Should I stop?" I murmured back, "I'm fine, it doesn't hurt! Go slowly, but go inside my ass."

I loved the feeling once his cock was inside. I couldn't believe it! It did not hurt, I felt so full, complete...

Anal sex is one of our passions. We have anal sex about one in every three times we make love. We've been together three years and I come just by anal sex alone or playing with sex toys in my pussy and his cock in my ass.......

I think our sex life is much fuller because he wasn't afraid to talk to me about anal sex. I had always been curious, but until I was with a man who knew what to do (or had read up on it enough so that he BELIEVED he knew what to do!) I was just too scared to really talk about it, never mind try anal sex. And now it's a "regular" part of our sex life!

Who'd have guessed????

wow...the title of that thread kinda fucked me up a bit.. I asked my self "self..how does one have anal sex in the vigina". Then I decided to click on the post and read em...

kinda looks like a thread that Piotr would start.

It IS a satire of Piotr´s style, duh!