I soooooo want to agree with number 2 it hurts. It hurts in all those special places.

That being said, just because a broad doesn't have the momentary self-restraint to know better doesn't mean we have to facilitate it.

What I'm getting at is: Look at it. Spank the monkey at it. But maybe we should let her private shame be her own, knowing we're doing exactly that.

Call me an old fashioned romantic, but that's how I see it.