There are ways for you to beat your homo-erotic fetish so your wife or family doesn't find out. I suggest that have2cit bring in a second party to help restrict some of the content that you search for by adding a second party password in your security settings. It won't keep you off Polk st. or Santa Monica blvd but it's a step in the right direction. Remember, you have to want the change to make it happen...its not healthy to keep masturbating to femdom that was produced in 2007...