When the ex was doing videos through swinger mags she'd get the occasional gift from a "fan". Usually nothing big or fancy, but it was certainly nothing she ever came to expect, let alone ask for. She had a guy who was a pretty good artist who'd always send her sketches. When there was actually something she wanted him to paint, she told what she wanted, got a price from him and sent him the money. He never offered to do it for free, she never thought he should. No fanboi-ism at all. Ah, a different world it was then.