The word is refer, you fucking idiot as in what you were referring too. I know you think defer kind of makes sense in your original post but I also know how stupid you are. You can't make it work. I'm sorry, you're a dummy. End of story.
You can pretend that you intended that word for use all you want. 'Tamorow' we'll have a whole new word for you to misspell or misuse.