First post, but I've been reading the forum for a while, just came across this post (excuse the pun) Don't think that lad Myload is The Outsider though. Have a look at these posts:

http://www.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=39398&FORUM_ID=5&CAT_ID=1&m=&reply=298119#post298119

http://www.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=24499&FORUM_ID=6&CAT_ID=3&m=&reply=158867#post158867

and

http://www.adultdvdtalk.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=40655&FORUM_ID=5&CAT_ID=1&m=&reply=302116#post302116

he speaks about his fiancé and how they're not swingers. Also he's not pompous and doesn't start a new line for every sentence

Sorry for debunking the other guy's detective work.

This thread is funny as fuck though