New people don't just get treated bad look at how tritone , charin and Panzer are treated. Those guys thrive on the abuse. If you are looking to join a cummunity like XPT be prepared to not give a fuck what anyone else thinks. You just have to be okay with your inner pervert. Despite the fact that you were also a child in the events you described its strongly frowned on in a porn board, especially one paid for by a porn production company, to talk about under age sex. Things like that tend to attract the attention of police agencies( Howdy officers! :-P ).
Charin = resident alcoholic pill head who is gag factor Rainman
Tritone = resident nigger, IR enthusiast and self hating negro
Panzer= most likely to be an actual sex offender. He also a big tranny fan and still in the closet about his queerness.
Fiend: Self-loathing homosexual.
Frankie Figgs = resident GIF fetishist and lover of tit fucking, rice and beans and illegal border crossings.
I could go on but I'm getting bored.