I don't want to bust your bubble. But you two are a just swingers trying to get in the business. You think you have the "value" because in the swing scene you are hot. But this is not swinging there are many married couples coming into the bizz that are better looking and younger than you. Most of these couple end up having the female partner work more. You are right there are many married couples out there but they still have to work with other people. You just want your cake and eat it too. Dream on loser