Eddie, your problem with titty bars is about the same as mine. You think of the girls as human beings. They most assuredly are not thinking of us that way, no matter how much sugar coats their words.
yeah i think i have a fundamental issue with seeing someone naked without knowing their name. if it was 1950 and acceptable to grope your secretary and own women as property i wouldn'r find it so weird but in 2011 i'm so entwined in post feminist theory i find it difficult to masturbate with asking myself where this relationship is heading.
at the strip club there was a band playing covers of guns and roses and i asked my toothless stripper if the band's parents were there to support their gig but she didn't get it and told me to refocus on her vagina.