We are all in the category as Brandon with respect to porn, save that he actually lived the dream and rose above mope level to boot. Most importantly, he has posted here without pretense and with good humor. The sad thing is that some folks see poison as the only antidote to ADT fanboi-ishness. Seem to recall hearing something back in my school days about The Golden Mean (was "never too much" an Aristotelean term?). We could use some of that around here some of these days.