My ex had the dreaded H. After 20 years I never picked it up. She basically had an initial outbreak, then one like 6 months later, then never again. We just made sure to be careful, or as careful as one can be.

It's academic, really. I doubt either of you (or any of us, except Charinm, maybe) can afford the briefcase full of blow needed to get a genteel young lady the likes of Miss Kacey into your soft, yet firm embrace.