Quote: I'm just saying you can't possibly know the background of every lady you've ever fucked and probably wouldn't want to.
Don't tell me what I can and can't possibly know.
It in fact is possible to know the sexual history of everyone you have ever slept with.
Fuck off with your all encompassing stuff. If you don't know your partners sexual history then say that.
You may have fucked up and gotten herpes, and the reason that is obvious is saying shit about needing specific antibody tests. Sounds like you are speaking from experience.
The attitude that this could happen to anyone is simply not true. It happens to careless people.
And as far as not wanting to, why? Seems to me that would be an incredibly useful thing to know (see porno dan if this makes no sense to you). Knowing risks is always good. If there were a blinking light you could put on top of the cars of every drunken idiot driving would you do that? Same deal with sexual history.
Unless someone is forcing you to have sex with dirty girls herpes is your own choice.