Obviously, you've never watched "Intervention". Tough love is the only thing that works. You can't sugar coat things. We need to present a united front. Our message: there is nothing we won't do to encourage Gia to get help and there is nothing we will do to help the present state of affairs continue. Until Gia agrees to get help, "everything she says is just noise". I'm even willing to let Gia stay at my place.