Marriage is a religious sacrament. The government should leave it alone. Certainly no telling churches who they can and can't marry. People should be able to enter into legal social partnerships, with a menu of items to share, such as financial, children, medical. If you want a full church wedding with snake handlers and a binding contract, fine. If you want to marry 3 woman and a midget in a lesbian Unitarian fellowship, fine. None of the government's fucking business.